I must approach this topic with a heavy hand. The spending habits of any group of people, including Black Americans, are influenced by a variety of factors, and it is essential to consider the historical, social, and economic contexts when discussing this issue. The phenomenon of Black Americans spending money outside their community has been...
Have You Ever Tasted Copper Recently I went into an appointment. The man I meet was kind and caring, but then it happened. We both served in the same place. He was a Marine. We talked about our times and experiences and then our feelings. Through the tears we both shared, we connected on a...
The morning was cool, the water was. As the smoke was coming off the water at the same time smoke was coming from my hot cup of coffee. I sat there thinking of what the fourth of July was like to me. The United States in so many conflicts and wars and so many deaths...
I have and am experiencing some vacantness in my own self, luckily, I am a man, a black man, a father, a veteran, but also a scientist to understand the how. My relationships have been damaged because I could not find the waldo of my own trauma until I did the work. “inCity Magazine celebrates...
A Veteran’s plight on the streets as the bustling city streets hum with life, a lone figure stands on the corner, holding a weathered sign that reads: “Help – Veteran – Homeless.” This individual, once a brave defender of the nation, now finds themselves in a desperate situation, seeking assistance that seems to elude them...
Durning these times of remembrance called Memorial Day, the few things #I do, one is cry for the many who served in the armed forces, # 2 is cry is cry for so many who don’t care and have cooked outs and go shopping for sells. This month is also mental health month. I wrote...
The Tall Poppy Syndrome among African Americans has had a profound impact on the community, causing dysfunction and hindering progress. By understanding the roots of this phenomenon and actively working to overcome it, African Americans can create a more supportive and empowering environment for individuals to thrive and succeed. Celebrating success, fostering unity, and promoting...
Our lives have been intertwined since the beginning of time. We have developed borders, which created wars and inequality. The way I see us healing and unifying is through emotional intelligence. Some individuals may naturally excel in emotional intelligence, it is a skill that can be learned and developed over time. By investing in training...
The Complex Nature of Dissociation: Understanding How the Brain Disassociates from Love and Punishment: “inCity Magazine celebrates the kaleidoscope of perspectives in each article. The views expressed herein are the unique brushstrokes of our guest writers, painting the canvas of their thoughts. These ideas, like stars in a constellation, shine independently and do not necessarily...
It has been said that “death is not an answer, but a solution”. The idea of death has a lure to it. It shines brighter than the stars often looked at. The star light of death is a gateway for healing and safety, but what it could never be is love and the feeling of life.